You’re Engaged, Now What?

Congratulations on the engagement! After saying "yes" to a proposal, there are several steps to take as you begin planning your wedding and future together.

1.  Celebrate and share the news:

Take time to enjoy the moment and share the exciting news with family and friends. You can post about it on social media, make phone calls, or have a small gathering to celebrate.

2.  Discuss wedding plans:

Start talking about your vision for the wedding, including the date, venue, guest list, and overall style. This will help you both get on the same page and begin making decisions.

3.  Set a budget:

Determine how much you're willing to spend on the wedding and start allocating funds to different areas, such as venue, food, photography, and music.

4.  Choose a wedding date:

Pick a date that works for both of you, considering factors like season, weather, and personal preferences.

5.  Research and visit venues:

Look for potential venues and schedule visits to find the perfect spot for your ceremony and reception. (Book with us!)

6.  Assemble a wedding party:

Decide on the size and makeup of your wedding party, including the number of bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girls, and ring bearers.

7.  Start thinking about the ceremony:

Consider the type of ceremony you want, including the format, music, and vows.

8.  Plan the reception:

Think about the food, drinks, music, and entertainment you want to have at the reception.

9.  Create a guest list:

Make a list of the people you want to invite to the wedding, including friends, family, and colleagues.

10.  Start planning the honeymoon:

Research and book a honeymoon destination, considering factors like budget, time of year, and personal preferences.

11.  Update your social media and online presence:

Change your social media profiles to reflect your engagement and start using a shared email address or joint social media account for wedding planning.

12.  Consider pre-marital counseling:

Look into counseling or therapy to help you both prepare for married life and build a strong foundation for your relationship.

13.  Start thinking about wedding attire:

Research and try on wedding dresses, suits, and accessories to find

the perfect look for your big day.

14.  Plan the wedding party attire:

Choose outfits for the bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girls, and ring bearers.

15.  Create a wedding website:

Build a website to share updates, photos, and information with your guests, including details about the wedding, accommodations, and gift registries.

Remember, planning a wedding can be overwhelming, but it's also an exciting time. Enjoy the journey! (and don't hesitate to ask for help when you need it).